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In his book, A More Beautiful Question, Warren Berger interviews serial entrepreneur and writer Jonathan Fields, who tells us that asking ourselves: “What would I do if I knew I couldn’t fail?” is the type of question that makes us powerless. Instead, Fields says, we should ask these alternate questions. From Fast Company:

What if I fail–how will I recover? Often when we think about failure, Fields says, “we do so in a vague, exaggerated way–we’re afraid to even think about it clearly.” But if before embarking on a high-risk challenge, you visualize what would actually happen if it failed–and what you’d likely have to do to pick up the pieces from that failure–this can help you realize that.

What if I do nothing? The point being, when we take on a major challenge it’s often because we really need to change–and if we don’t go ahead with it, we’re likely to be unhappy staying put. Whatever problem or restlessness already exists may, in fact, get worse. “There is no sideways,” Fields says; if you’re not moving forward, you’re moving back.

The other questions Fields says we should be asking include: What if I succeed? What’s truly worth doing, whether I fail or succeed? And: in this failure, what went right? If you’re faced with a frightening decision today, you need to ask (and answer) these questions.

Get the whole story about why these questions work (and why you shouldn’t always ask “What would I do if I knew I couldn’t fail?”) right here on Fast Company.

  • Sarah Peterson

    Love the one that asks, “What is truly worth doing whether you succeed or fail?” <— right on the money!

    • http://www.creativesomething.net/ tannerc

      Completely agree Sarah. It’s one of the more powerful questions to ask for any task or project. Thanks for commenting!

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  • Common Man

    This article is taken from life hacker website!! Plagiarism!!!!

    • http://www.creativesomething.net/ tannerc

      Actually, you’ll note that Lifehacker links to the original source article highlighted here as well, on Fast Company. They also attribute 99u for being *their* source. Nobody has plagiarized anyone.

      For those curious: http://lifehacker.com/ask-yourself-the-right-questions-to-get-over-a-fear-of-1550574761

    • Sarah Peterson

      This made me laugh… saying Fast Company plagiarized Lifehacker is like saying The New Yorker plagiarized Buzzfeed.😉

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