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Conflict

Is An Inner Argument Holding Back Your Productivity?

Do you have a chorus of voices chiming in whenever you have to make a big decision? How to get your inner selves to work together.


Have you ever received the opportunity of your dreams and sabotaged it by not responding? Maybe you got an email about a possible book deal, or an invitation to play an incredible gig, or an inquiry from a mega-client. The dream invitation came – and to your own surprise, you ignored it. Why do we behave in such a clearly counter-productive manner?

I would argue that we often do this because we’ve brought the wrong part of ourselves to the table. As creatives governing our own careers, we have to bring many different skillsets — many different selves, even — to the diverse activities we do on a daily basis. When we bring the wrong self to the table, we can get paralyzed.

That’s what happened to me. After I’d been blogging for a couple of years, literary agents began contacting me to ask, “Was I interested in a book project?” I certainly was.

We’d meet for tea, and they’d ask me a series of questions: “Who is the target customer for this book? How would you say you differ from say, a Martha Beck, or a Deepak Chopra? Are you doing any major corporate speaking?”

When we bring the wrong self to the table, we can get paralyzed.

I’m embarrassed to admit it, but what happened next was this: I ignored their follow-up emails. I’d wake up in the middle of the night, heart pounding, thinking “Seriously, what kind of writer who wants to do a book doesn’t respond to a literary agent’s enthusiastic note?” I wasn’t sure why I was stuck.

Months later, I saw the problem: My inner artist had gotten spooked. Thinking these meetings were about my writing, I brought my writer-self, my super-sensitive inner artist, to the meetings. And guess what? My inner artist is terrified and paralyzed by conversations about how to market her work.

That’s when I realized that there were other selves, other advocates, that I could bring to the table.

There are three voices within every creator:

  • The Inner Artist
  • The Inner Editor
  • The Inner Agent

To have a successful career, we must all learn how to deploy each of them at particular times, and keep them from stepping on each other’s toes.

I would argue that most of the problems in our creative lives stem from bringing the wrong part of ourselves to the task at hand. Most of us under-utilize at least one of the three roles and over-use one of the other roles. A thriving creative career requires consciously shifting between the three voices, utilizing each at the right time.

In the early stage of the creative process, we need the inner artist. The artist’s domain is drafting, receiving ideas and inspiration, fleshing them out. The artist thrives in an atmosphere of curiosity, safety, and play. She needs shelter from others’ opinions and respite from even thinking about what the judgments of others might be.

In the second stage of the creative process, the inner editor leads. The editor’s domain is revising, trimming, structuring. Whereas the artist must forget about what other people might think, the editor brings the audience back into the process, ensuring that the work effectively communicates the artist’s intent.

Then the inner agent takes the baton. The agent’s domain is developing marketing messages for the work, communicating about the work to external stakeholders, and finding distribution. The agent is thick-skinned, brave, and wise about the market.

Most of the problems in our creative lives stem from bringing the wrong part of ourselves to the task at hand.

Of course, the process is not entirely linear. A late-stage problem that requires a highly creative solution might require the inner artist, for example.

Each inner archetype has a wholly different way of being. The artist explores what he doesn’t know. The editor brings to bear what he does know. The agent advocates for what he wants.

If the inner agent shows up in the early stage of idea conception or fleshing out a first draft? Disaster. The agent will impoverish the artist’s ideas by worrying too early on about what will sell. She’ll unknowingly push the work in a conformist direction. She’ll mute the muse.

The inner editor can also disrupt the work of the inner artist — evaluating the work or creating structure prematurely.

Bring the sensitive inner artist into the agent’s domain — into, for example, a business meeting about how to market a piece of creative work? She can become so turned off that she’ll run for the hills, resulting in months of creative stagnation.

To find more ease and productivity in your creative process, I suggest taking these steps:

1. Take a look at what’s been happening in your creative life by answering these questions:

  • Which of these roles is my default/comfort zone?
  • When do I fall into this role even though it’s really not the best fit for the task at hand?
  • Which role is underutilized? Which role or roles do I avoid stepping into?
  • Where do I have “trust issues” between the three roles? Does the inner artist trust the agent to bring her work to market without selling out? Does the inner agent think that the artist is never going to produce anything with commercial appeal? Notice what resentments, conflicts or issues of trust are happening between the three parts of you. Just observing and naming the issues will reduce their intensity.

2. Get to know your three inner creative roles.

Write down a list of words or phrases you associate with each. Give each one a theme song. Identify a color that expresses the personality of each one.

3. Next, look over your calendar for the coming week.

Notice which part of you is best suited for the various tasks, meetings, and work periods you have ahead.

4. As you move through the week, consciously shift into the appropriate mode as you do the work.

Thinking of the color or song you identified can help you quickly access that part of yourself.  Notice when your default role shows up where it’s not helpful, and mindfully move into the mode that’s best suited for the task.


What’s Your Creative Identity?

What have you learned about your different internal personalities? Has your creative work suffered because you brought the wrong self to your creative work?

Comments (106)
  • Tanya Pshenychny

    This is a pretty brilliant perspective of “selves”. It’s exactly what I’ve been struggling with for a while. Thanks for writing this, Tara.

  • Peggy Dolane

    Agreed! Brilliant. And love the visualization exercise to make those roles real in ourselves.

  • Guest

    what a hell of a insight!! thanks for share.

  • Susan Porter

    AHA! Now I understand…. Thanks, Tara!

  • LucidGal

    Very true… For years, people would ask me if I was an artist and I always answered, “No!” Then a friend, who is a very good painter said, “I want you to take a big piece of paper and write “I am an artist” on it and put it on your refrigerator. Best advice I ever got. I now have my own art business at http://www.hebrica.com and a new career that excites me far more than the two previous ones ever did.

  • James

    I new I had multiple personalities….. Just joking! But I do love how you breakdown a person’s different working styles and how to utilize them. It’s so true that I have brought my wrong self to the table at times. I’ve been learning that more and more as I work on LifeSketch. Thank you so much for the advice!

    – James
    http://www.facebook.com/lifesk

  • Kirthi * Film

    thank you for sharing this tara! the way you’ve identified and distilled the three voices and the roles they play is so useful. and the visualization with colors! excited to experiment with this…starting today!

  • Matthew

    Really brilliant concept. Thank you!

  • JeffreyDavis11

    Smart framing, Tara. Much of this boils down to how we captivate – first, how we captivate our true selves in the creative work; then, how we captivate collaborators; and then ultimately how we captivate our tribes and audiences and customers. Love the triad of selves.

  • Molly Morrissey

    Thanks for this post, Tara. Very timely as I juggle website re-writes, marketing strategies, and the tender work of creating my own blog. No wonder it’s been tough to reach the muse! I appreciate your clear language and actionable steps – as always.

  • jenlouden

    oh I love this and reminds me of some of the stuff I teach to writers. you are so brilliant!

  • Ian Dillon

    Ungodly true…

  • Jennie Varela Jodziewicz

    Tara, this is a truly brilliant analogy – and one that lines up very well with Michael Gerber’s, E-Myth Revisited (the Entrepreneurial Myth) – which for me, his book provides practical, usable, short- and long-term action steps to take when creating and developing a business. As Creatives, we are all business owners – of our creative talent. As business owners, we have the need to operate in 3 distinct areas of business: Marketing (Agent), Management (Editor) and Production (Artist). I have had such a hard time aligning business techniques with my creative business, and just yesterday was speaking with someone about how lost I feel, directionless. So much good information out there, but how exactly do I apply it? You have done an incredible job at making those distinctions very clear here, in how to match up real business sense with the creative mind. There are now so many business principles in those areas of Management, Marketing and Production that can be properly applied in my business – I just didn’t know where to begin before. I thank you, my inner artist thanks you, and my Editor and Agent thank you as well. I truly feel enlightened!

  • Allison Bloom

    really lovely and helpful framework. Love, love, love.

  • Marc Harmon

    Wonderful words of advice! This hit me right between the eyes.

  • Susan Gallacher-Turner

    Great way to handle being a creative person! I am a working artist. I have been an editor. And I have worked in advertising agencies developing successful campaigns for a range of clients. Having all these ‘hats’ is a very good thing. Using them effectively is, indeed, tricky. I have made many of the same mistakes you describe.

    I love your idea of visualizing colors and picking each self a theme song. Understanding each one’s individual strengths and choosing which hat to wear will be my challenge. Thanks for the wise and creative advice!

  • Kiri Ø. Leonard

    I love this article. It really struck a chord with me. I am horrible at not responding because I freeze up.

  • Tara Sophia Mohr

    So glad you found it helpful!

  • Tara Sophia Mohr

    Hurray for those aha moments!

  • Tara Sophia Mohr

    Fabulous!

  • Tara Sophia Mohr

    You are so welcome.

  • Tara Sophia Mohr

    Ooh, that deserves a blog post in itself. I look forward to reading it.

  • Tara Sophia Mohr

    Thanks Molly. Yes – it sounds like you are needing to operate in all the different modes very fluidly – which can be an extra challenge.

  • Tara Sophia Mohr

    I’ve loved studying writing with you. Highly recommend.

  • Tara Sophia Mohr

    🙂

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